{"id":997,"collection_id":1,"collection":"bukhari","collection_name":"Sahih al-Bukhari","book_number":"23","bab_id":45.0,"english_bab_number":"45","arabic_bab_number":"45","hadith_number":"1305","our_hadith_number":63,"arabic_urn":111950,"arabic_bab_name":"باب مَا يُنْهَى عَنِ النَّوْحِ، وَالْبُكَاءِ، وَالزَّجْرِ، عَنْ ذَلِكَ","arabic_text":"إِنَّ نِسَاءَ جَعْفَرٍ وَذَكَرَ بُكَاءَهُنَّ فَأَمَرَهُ بِأَنْ يَنْهَاهُنَّ، فَذَهَبَ الرَّجُلُ ثُمَّ أَتَى فَقَالَ قَدْ نَهَيْتُهُنَّ، وَذَكَرَ أَنَّهُنَّ لَمْ يُطِعْنَهُ، فَأَمَرَهُ الثَّانِيَةَ أَنْ يَنْهَاهُنَّ، فَذَهَبَ، ثُمَّ أَتَى، فَقَالَ وَاللَّهِ لَقَدْ غَلَبْنَنِي أَوْ غَلَبْنَنَا الشَّكُّ مِنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ ـ فَزَعَمَتْ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏\"‏ فَاحْثُ فِي أَفْوَاهِهِنَّ التُّرَابَ ‏\"‏‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ أَرْغَمَ اللَّهُ أَنْفَكَ، فَوَاللَّهِ مَا أَنْتَ بِفَاعِلٍ وَمَا تَرَكْتَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم مِنَ الْعَنَاءِ‏.‏","arabic_transliteration":"'inna nisaa'a ja'farin wadhakara bukaa'ahunna fa'amarahu bi'an yanhaahunna، fadhahaba alrrajulu thumma 'atay faqaala qad nahaytuhunna، wadhakara 'annahunna lam yuti'nahu، fa'amarahu alththaaniyaha 'an yanhaahunna، fadhahaba، thumma 'atay، faqaala waalllahi laqad ghalabnaniy 'aw ghalabnanaa alshshakku min muhammadi bni hawshabin  faza'amat 'anna alnnabiyya sly allh 'lyh wslm qaala ‏\"‏ faahthu fiy 'afwaahihinna altturaaba ‏\"‏‏.‏ faqultu 'arghama alllahu 'anfaka، fawaalllahi maa 'anta bifaa'ilin wamaa tarakta rasuwla alllahi sly allh 'lyh wslm mina al'anaa'i‏.‏","arabic_grade":"صحيح","english_urn":12300,"english_bab_name":"The forbiddance of wailing and crying aloud","english_text":"<p>\nNarrated Aisha:\n\n<p>When the news of the martyrdom of Zaid bin Haritha, Ja`far and `Abdullah bin Rawaha came, the \nProphet sat down looking sad, and I was looking through the chink of the door. A man came and said, \n\"O Allah's Apostle! The women of Ja`far,\" and then he mentioned their crying . The Prophet (p.b.u.h) \nordered him to stop them from crying. The man went and came back and said, \"I tried to stop them but \nthey disobeyed.\" The Prophet (p.b.u.h) ordered him for the second time to forbid them. He went again \nand came back and said, \"They did not listen to me, (or \"us\": the sub-narrator Muhammad bin \nHaushab is in doubt as to which is right). \" (`Aisha added: The Prophet said, \"Put dust in their \nmouths.\" I said (to that man), \"May Allah stick your nose in the dust (i.e. humiliate you).\" By Allah, \nyou could not (stop the women from crying) to fulfill the order, besides you did not relieve Allah's \nApostle from fatigue.\"","english_grade":"Sahih","last_updated":null,"xrefs":""}