{"id":38522,"collection_id":13,"collection":"adab","collection_name":"Al-Adab Al-Mufrad","book_number":"57","bab_id":644.0,"english_bab_number":"644","arabic_bab_number":"644","hadith_number":"1322","our_hadith_number":7,"arabic_urn":2313190,"arabic_bab_name":"بَابُ لا يَكُنْ بُغْضُكَ تَلَفًا","arabic_text":"حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ، قَالَ‏:‏ أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ أَسْلَمَ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ قَالَ‏:‏ لاَ يَكُنْ حُبُّكَ كَلَفًا، وَلاَ بُغْضُكَ تَلَفًا، فَقُلْتُ‏:‏ كَيْفَ ذَاكَ‏؟‏ قَالَ‏:‏ إِذَا أَحْبَبْتَ كَلِفْتَ كَلَفَ الصَّبِيِّ، وَإِذَا أَبْغَضْتَ أَحْبَبْتَ لِصَاحِبِكَ التَّلَف‏.‏","arabic_transliteration":"haddathanaa sa'iydu bnu 'abiy maryama، qaala‏:‏ 'akhbaranaa muhammadu bnu ja'farin، qaala‏:‏ haddathanaa zaydu bnu 'aslama، 'an 'abiyhi، 'an 'umara bni alkhattaabi qaala‏:‏ laa yakun hubbuka kalafana، walaa bughduka talafana، faqultu‏:‏ kayfa dhaaka‏؟‏ qaala‏:‏ 'idhaa 'ahbabta kalifta kalafa alssabiyyi، wa'idhaa 'abghadta 'ahbabta lisaahibika alttalaf‏.‏","arabic_grade":"صـحـيـح","english_urn":2212790,"english_bab_name":"Do not let your anger be destruction","english_text":"Aslam said, \" 'Umar ibn al-Khattab said, 'Do not let your love\nbe a total infatuation. Do not let your anger be destruction.' I asked,\n'How is that?' He replied, 'When you love, you are infatuated like a child.\nWhen you hate, you desire destruction for your companion.'\"","english_grade":"Sahih","last_updated":null,"xrefs":""}