{"id":38330,"collection_id":13,"collection":"adab","collection_name":"Al-Adab Al-Mufrad","book_number":"42","bab_id":479.0,"english_bab_number":"479","arabic_bab_number":"479","hadith_number":"1048","our_hadith_number":85,"arabic_urn":2310450,"arabic_bab_name":"بَابُ التَّسْلِيمِ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ","arabic_text":"حَدَّثَنَا مَخْلَدٌ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا مُبَشِّرُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ، عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي غَنِيَّةَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مُهَاجِرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَسْمَاءَ ابْنَةِ يَزِيدَ الأَنْصَارِيَّةِ، مَرَّ بِيَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَأَنَا فِي جِوَارِ أَتْرَابٍ لِي، فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْنَا وَقَالَ‏:‏ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَ الْمُنْعِمِينَ، وَكُنْتُ مِنْ أَجْرَئِهِنَّ عَلَى مَسْأَلَتِهِ، فَقُلْتُ‏:‏ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، وَمَا كُفْرُ الْمُنْعِمِينَ‏؟‏ قَالَ‏:‏ لَعَلَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا مِنْ أَبَوَيْهَا، ثُمَّ يَرْزُقُهَا اللَّهُ زَوْجًا، وَيَرْزُقُهَا مِنْهُ وَلَدًا، فَتَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتَكْفُرُ فَتَقُولُ‏:‏ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْكَ خَيْرًا قَطُّ‏.‏","arabic_transliteration":"haddathanaa makhladun، qaala‏:‏ haddathanaa mubashshiru bnu 'ismaa'iyla، 'ani abni 'abiy ghaniyyaha، 'an muhammadi bni muhaajirin، 'an 'abiyhi، 'an 'asmaa'a abnahi yaziyda al'ansaariyyahi، marra biya alnnabiyyu sly allh 'lyh wslm wa'anaa fiy jiwaari 'atraabin liy، fasallama 'alaynaa waqaala‏:‏ 'iyyaakunna wakufra almun'imiyna، wakuntu min 'ajra'ihinna 'alay mas'alatihi، faqultu‏:‏ yaa rasuwla allhi، wamaa kufru almun'imiyna‏؟‏ qaala‏:‏ la'alla 'ihdaakunna tatuwlu 'aymatuhaa min 'abawayhaa، thumma yarzuquhaa alllahu zawjana، wayarzuquhaa minhu waladana، fataghdabu alghadbaha fatakfuru fataquwlu‏:‏ maa ra'aytu minka khayrana qattu‏.‏","arabic_grade":"صـحـيـح","english_urn":2210030,"english_bab_name":"Greeting women","english_text":"Asma', the daughter of Yazid al-Ansari, said, \"The Prophet, may\nAllah bless him and grant him peace, passed by me while I was with some\nyoung slavegirls belonging to me. He greeted us and said, 'Beware of the\ningratitude of those with blessings.' I was the boldest of them in coming\nforward to question him and I said, 'Messenger of Allah, what is the ingratitude\nof those with blessings?' He replied, 'Perhaps one of them with remain\nunmarried for a long time with her parents and then Allah provides her\nwith a husband and provides her with children from him and then she gets\nangry and is ungrateful and says, \"I have never seen any good at all from\nyou.\"'\"","english_grade":"Sahih","last_updated":null,"xrefs":""}