{"id":37650,"collection_id":13,"collection":"adab","collection_name":"Al-Adab Al-Mufrad","book_number":"18","bab_id":167.0,"english_bab_number":"167","arabic_bab_number":"167","hadith_number":"361","our_hadith_number":9,"arabic_urn":2303590,"arabic_bab_name":"بَابُ تَسْوِيدِ الأكَابِرِ","arabic_text":"حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ مَرْزُوقٍ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ قَتَادَةَ‏:‏ سَمِعْتُ مُطَرِّفًا، عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ قَيْسِ بْنِ عَاصِمٍ، أَنَّ أَبَاهُ أَوْصَى عِنْدَ مَوْتِهِ بَنِيهِ فَقَالَ‏:‏ اتَّقُوا اللَّهَ وَسَوِّدُوا أَكْبَرُكُمْ، فَإِنَّ الْقَوْمَ إِذَا سَوَّدُوا أَكْبَرَهُمْ خَلَفُوا أَبَاهُمْ، وَإِذَا سَوَّدُوا أَصْغَرَهُمْ أَزْرَى بِهِمْ ذَلِكَ فِي أَكْفَائِهِمْ‏.‏ وَعَلَيْكُمْ بِالْمَالِ وَاصْطِنَاعِهِ، فَإِنَّهُ مَنْبَهَةٌ لِلْكَرِيمِ، وَيُسْتَغْنَى بِهِ عَنِ اللَّئِيمِ‏.‏ وَإِيَّاكُمْ وَمَسْأَلَةَ النَّاسِ، فَإِنَّهَا مِنْ آخِرِ كَسْبِ الرَّجُلِ‏.‏ وَإِذَا مُتُّ فَلاَ تَنُوحُوا، فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يُنَحْ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم‏.‏ وَإِذَا مُتُّ فَادْفِنُونِي بِأَرْضٍ لاَ يَشْعُرُ بِدَفْنِي بَكْرُ بْنُ وَائِلٍ، فَإِنِّي كُنْتُ أُغَافِلُهُمْ فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ‏.‏","arabic_transliteration":"haddathanaa 'amruw bnu marzuwqin، qaala‏:‏ haddathanaa shu'bahu، 'an qataadaha‏:‏ sami'tu mutarrifana، 'an hakiymi bni qaysi bni 'aasimin، 'anna 'abaahu 'awsay 'inda mawtihi baniyhi faqaala‏:‏ attaquwa alllaha wasawwiduwa 'akbarukum، fa'inna alqawma 'idhaa sawwaduwa 'akbarahum khalafuwa 'abaahum، wa'idhaa sawwaduwa 'asgharahum 'azray bihim dhalika fiy 'akfaa'ihim‏.‏ wa'alaykum bialmaali waastinaa'ihi، fa'innahu manbahahun lilkariymi، wayustaghnay bihi 'ani allla'iymi‏.‏ wa'iyyaakum wamas'alaha alnnaasi، fa'innahaa min 'aakhiri kasbi alrrajuli‏.‏ wa'idhaa muttu falaa tanuwhuwa، fa'innahu lam yunah 'alay rasuwli allhi sly allh 'lyh wslm‏.‏ wa'idhaa muttu faadfinuwniy bi'ardin laa yash'uru bidafniy bakru bnu waa'ilin، fa'inniy kuntu 'ughaafiluhum fiy aljaahiliyyahi‏.‏","arabic_grade":"حـسـن","english_urn":2203610,"english_bab_name":"Making the old leaders","english_text":"Hakim ibn Qays ibn 'Asim reported that when his father was dying,\nhe enjoined his sons: \"Fear Allah and make the oldest among you your leaders.\nWhen people make the oldest among them their leaders, they follow their\nfathers. When they make the youngest among them their leaders, that lowers\nthem in the sight of their peers. You must have wealth and use it well.\nIt is an impetus for the generous and it will make you independent of critics.\nBeware of asking people. It is a man's last source of earning. When I die,\ndo not wail. There was no wailing for the Messenger of Allah, may Allah\nbless him and grant him peace. When I die, bury me in a land where the Bakr\nibn Wa'il will not know where I am buried. I used to waylay on the roads\nin the time of the Jahiliyya.\"","english_grade":"Hasan","last_updated":null,"xrefs":""}