{"id":37345,"collection_id":13,"collection":"adab","collection_name":"Al-Adab Al-Mufrad","book_number":"1","bab_id":5.0,"english_bab_number":"5","arabic_bab_number":"5","hadith_number":"8","our_hadith_number":8,"arabic_urn":2300090,"arabic_bab_name":"بَابُ لِينِ الْكَلاَمِ لِوَالِدَيْهِ","arabic_text":"حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنَا زِيَادُ بْنُ مِخْرَاقٍ قَالَ‏:‏ حَدَّثَنِي طَيْسَلَةُ بْنُ مَيَّاسٍ قَالَ‏:‏ كُنْتُ مَعَ النَّجَدَاتِ، فَأَصَبْتُ ذُنُوبًا لاَ أَرَاهَا إِلاَّ مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ، فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ‏:‏ مَا هِيَ‏؟‏ قُلْتُ‏:‏ كَذَا وَكَذَا، قَالَ‏:‏ لَيْسَتْ هَذِهِ مِنَ الْكَبَائِرِ، هُنَّ تِسْعٌ‏:‏ الإِشْرَاكُ بِاللَّهِ، وَقَتْلُ نَسَمَةٍ، وَالْفِرَارُ مِنَ الزَّحْفِ، وَقَذْفُ الْمُحْصَنَةِ، وَأَكْلُ الرِّبَا، وَأَكْلُ مَالِ الْيَتِيمِ، وَإِلْحَادٌ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ، وَالَّذِي يَسْتَسْخِرُ، وَبُكَاءُ الْوَالِدَيْنِ مِنَ الْعُقُوقِ‏.‏ قَالَ لِي ابْنُ عُمَرَ‏:‏ أَتَفْرَقُ النَّارَ، وَتُحِبُّ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ الْجَنَّةَ‏؟‏ قُلْتُ‏:‏ إِي وَاللَّهِ، قَالَ‏:‏ أَحَيٌّ وَالِدُكَ‏؟‏ قُلْتُ‏:‏ عِنْدِي أُمِّي، قَالَ‏:‏ فَوَاللَّهِ لَوْ أَلَنْتَ لَهَا الْكَلاَمَ، وَأَطْعَمْتَهَا الطَّعَامَ، لَتَدْخُلَنَّ الْجَنَّةَ مَا اجْتَنَبْتَ الْكَبَائِرَ‏.‏","arabic_transliteration":"haddathanaa musaddadun، qaala‏:‏ haddathanaa 'ismaa'iylu bnu 'ibraahiyma، qaala‏:‏ haddathanaa ziyaadu bnu mikhraaqin qaala‏:‏ haddathaniy taysalahu bnu mayyaasin qaala‏:‏ kuntu ma'a alnnajadaati، fa'asabtu dhunuwbana laa 'araahaa 'ilaaa mina alkabaa'iri، fadhakartu dhalika liabni 'umara qaala‏:‏ maa hiya‏؟‏ qultu‏:‏ kadhaa wakadhaa، qaala‏:‏ laysat hadhihi mina alkabaa'iri، hunna tis'un‏:‏ al'ishraaku bialllahi، waqatlu nasamahin، waalfiraaru mina alzzahfi، waqadhfu almuhsanahi، wa'aklu alrribaa، wa'aklu maali alyatiymi، wa'ilhaadun fiy almasjidi، waalladhiy yastaskhiru، wabukaa'u alwaalidayni mina al'uquwqi‏.‏ qaala liy abnu 'umara‏:‏ 'atafraqu alnnaara، watuhibbu 'an tadkhula aljannaha‏؟‏ qultu‏:‏ 'iy waalllahi، qaala‏:‏ 'ahayyun waaliduka‏؟‏ qultu‏:‏ 'indiy 'ummiy، qaala‏:‏ fawaalllahi law 'alanta lahaa alkalaama، wa'at'amtahaa altta'aama، latadkhulanna aljannaha maa ajtanabta alkabaa'ira‏.‏","arabic_grade":"صـحـيـح","english_urn":2200090,"english_bab_name":"Gentle words to Parents","english_text":"Taysala ibn Mayyas said, \"I was with the Najadites [Kharijites] when I\ncommitted wrong actions which I supposed were major wrong actions. I mentioned\nthat to Ibn 'Umar. He inquired, 'What are they?\" I replied, 'Such-and-such.'\nHe stated, 'These are not major wrong actions. There are nine major wrong\nactions. They are: associating others with Allah, killing someone, desertion\nfrom the army when it is advancing, slandering a chaste woman, usury, consuming\nan orphan's property, heresy in the mosque, scoffing, and causing one's parents\nto weep through disobedience.' Ibn 'Umar then said to me, 'Do you wish to\nseparate yourself from the Fire? Would you like to enter Paradise?' 'By Allah,\nyes!' I replied. He asked, 'Are your parents still alive?' I replied, 'My\nmother is.' He said, 'By Allah, if you speak gently to her and feed her,\nthen you will enter the Garden as long as you avoid the major wrong actions.'\"","english_grade":"Sahih","last_updated":null,"xrefs":""}