{"id":21095,"collection_id":4,"collection":"abudawud","collection_name":"Sunan Abi Dawud","book_number":"13","bab_id":46.0,"english_bab_number":"762","arabic_bab_number":"46","hadith_number":"2305","our_hadith_number":131,"arabic_urn":923080,"arabic_bab_name":"باب فِيمَا تَجْتَنِبُهُ الْمُعْتَدَّةُ فِي عِدَّتِهَا","arabic_text":"حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ صَالِحٍ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي مَخْرَمَةُ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، قَالَ سَمِعْتُ الْمُغِيرَةَ بْنَ الضَّحَّاكِ، يَقُولُ أَخْبَرَتْنِي أُمُّ حَكِيمٍ بِنْتُ أُسَيْدٍ، عَنْ أُمِّهَا، أَنَّ زَوْجَهَا، تُوُفِّيَ وَكَانَتْ تَشْتَكِي عَيْنَيْهَا فَتَكْتَحِلُ بِالْجَلاَءِ - قَالَ أَحْمَدُ الصَّوَابُ بِكُحْلِ الْجَلاَءِ - فَأَرْسَلَتْ مَوْلاَةً لَهَا إِلَى أُمِّ سَلَمَةَ فَسَأَلَتْهَا عَنْ كُحْلِ الْجَلاَءِ فَقَالَتْ لاَ تَكْتَحِلِي بِهِ إِلاَّ مِنْ أَمْرٍ لاَ بُدَّ مِنْهُ يَشْتَدُّ عَلَيْكِ فَتَكْتَحِلِينَ بِاللَّيْلِ وَتَمْسَحِينَهُ بِالنَّهَارِ ‏.‏ ثُمَّ قَالَتْ عِنْدَ ذَلِكَ أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ دَخَلَ عَلَىَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم حِينَ تُوُفِّيَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ وَقَدْ جَعَلْتُ عَلَى عَيْنِي صَبِرًا فَقَالَ ‏\"‏ مَا هَذَا يَا أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ ‏\"‏ ‏.‏ فَقُلْتُ إِنَّمَا هُوَ صَبِرٌ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ لَيْسَ فِيهِ طِيبٌ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏\"‏ إِنَّهُ يَشُبُّ الْوَجْهَ فَلاَ تَجْعَلِيهِ إِلاَّ بِاللَّيْلِ وَتَنْزِعِينَهُ بِالنَّهَارِ وَلاَ تَمْتَشِطِي بِالطِّيبِ وَلاَ بِالْحِنَّاءِ فَإِنَّهُ خِضَابٌ ‏\"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَتْ قُلْتُ بِأَىِّ شَىْءٍ أَمْتَشِطُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَالَ ‏\"‏ بِالسِّدْرِ تُغَلِّفِينَ بِهِ رَأْسَكِ ‏\"‏ ‏.‏","arabic_transliteration":"haddathanaa 'ahmadu bnu saalihin، haddathanaa abnu wahbin، 'akhbaraniy makhramahu، 'an 'abiyhi، qaala sami'tu almughiyraha bna alddahhaaki، yaquwlu 'akhbaratniy 'ummu hakiymin bintu 'usaydin، 'an 'ummihaa، 'anna zawjahaa، tuwuffiya wakaanat tashtakiy 'aynayhaa fataktahilu bialjalaa'i - qaala 'ahmadu alssawaabu bikuhli aljalaa'i - fa'arsalat mawlaahan lahaa 'ilay 'ummi salamaha fasa'alathaa 'an kuhli aljalaa'i faqaalat laa taktahiliy bihi 'ilaaa min 'amrin laa budda minhu yashtaddu 'alayki fataktahiliyna bialllayli watamsahiynahu bialnnahaari ‏.‏ thumma qaalat 'inda dhalika 'ummu salamaha dakhala 'alayya rasuwlu alllahi sly allh 'lyh wslm hiyna tuwuffiya 'abuw salamaha waqad ja'altu 'alay 'ayniy sabirana faqaala ‏\"‏ maa hadhaa yaa 'umma salamaha ‏\"‏ ‏.‏ faqultu 'innamaa huwa sabirun yaa rasuwla alllahi laysa fiyhi tiybun ‏.‏ qaala ‏\"‏ 'innahu yashubbu alwajha falaa taj'aliyhi 'ilaaa bialllayli watanzi'iynahu bialnnahaari walaa tamtashitiy bialttiybi walaa bialhinnaa'i fa'innahu khidaabun ‏\"‏ ‏.‏ qaalat qultu bi'ayyi shay'in 'amtashitu yaa rasuwla alllahi qaala ‏\"‏ bialssidri tughallifiyna bihi ra'saki ‏\"‏ ‏.‏","arabic_grade":"ضعيف","english_urn":822980,"english_bab_name":"What Should A Woman Whose Husband Dies Avoid During Her Waiting Period ?","english_text":"<p>\n\nUmm Hakim, daughter of Usayd, reported on the authority of her mother that her husband died and she was suffering from sore eyes. She therefore applied collyrium (jala'). Ahmad said: The correct version is \"glittering collyrium (kuhl al-jala'). She sent her slave-girl to Umm Salamah, and she asked her about the use of glittering collyrium (kuhl al-jala').  \n</p>\n\n\n<p>\n\nShe said: Do not apply it except in the case of dire need which is troubling you. In that case you can use it at night, but you should remove it in the daytime. Then Umm Salamah said: The Messenger of Allah (saws) came to visit me when AbuSalamah died, and I had put the juice of aloes in my eye.  \n</p>\n\n\n<p>\n\nHe asked : What is this, Umm Salamah?  I replied: It is only the juice of aloes and contains no perfume.  He said: It gives the face a glow, so apply it only at night and remove it in daytime, and do not comb yourself with scent or henna, for it is a dye.  I asked: What should I use when I comb myself, Messenger of Allah?  He said: Use lote-tree leaves and smear your head copiously with them.\n</p>","english_grade":"Da'if","last_updated":null,"xrefs":""}